A child who is guided from childhood in the computer feels more confident because he gets an access to the modern world.
Some computer games are the same classes as everyone knows that the child is much easier to attract to the game than having to add numbers or to learn the alphabet. When a child plays computer games, he enters a magical world that is so similar to a real one.
How not to get lost in the mirror world?
In computer games the most dangerous – this is the effect of the presence, when the baby begins to get acquainted with the computer. The smallest child understands that a cartoon is something that it is not directly related. He is an observer. Unlike cartoons computer games are constructed so that the player in what is happening feels like a party. Even an adult can be very difficult to return to the real world, what can we say about the kid that barely separates fantasy from reality. It is necessary to press the button, and fly with someone, fight with dragons or dancing at the ball.
The need to return to a world of fantasy, this is one of the first symptoms of psychological dependence, and sometimes even an adult is hard to get rid of it.
It’s really not as scary as it sometimes seems at first glance. Experience shows that in the first place to kibersvijeta tend those children in whom the computer is a lightning Continue reading
Are You familiar with the condition where you want to yell at your child?
Or even to hit him?
Or are you confused and don’t know what to say to your child?
Or you think that you are too much from him?
And maybe sometimes you’re angry at yourself and you think that you are wrong to bring up?
because you have a lot of work and little time to engage the child
because you want every time as better, but it turns out, at least not in the way you want
because you, too, “so” raised
because it turns out that you don’t control the child, and the child – you
because sometimes you just don’t have the patience to do everything according to the rules written in books on education
And at the same time you really love
your son or daughter
and very want
the child grew up independent, strong, free, creative,
and most importantly happy and healthy
In our days the world is facing a crisis of education. In the past, the goal of education was to teach children obedience.
Positive parenting aims to raise the strong-willed child, but inclined to cooperate.
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In recent decades, psychologists have made a number of remarkable discoveries.
One of them is about the importance of communication style with the child to develop his or her personality.
Bad food poisons the body; improper communication is poisoning the child’s mind. The style of parental interaction involuntarily recorded (imprinted) in the child’s mind.
The parents of difficult children themselves suffered from conflicts with their own parents. Most parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood.
To change the style of communication with the child, the parent should:
1. Of course to adopt a child is to love him not for what he’s handsome, smart, calm and so on, and just like that, just for what he is! You must tell the child that he is dear to you. Four hours of communication per day is absolutely necessary for everyone to survive, and for good health at least eight (Virginia Satir)
2. Do not interfere in the case, which makes the child unless he asks for help. His laissez-faire you will tell him: “you all right, you’re going to fail.”
3. If a child is difficult, and he is ready to ask for your Continue reading