First semester (or second quarter) is finally over, the books resting on the shelf, and children… boring! They (and parents too) sooo waiting for this magical period when you can relax from school and damashek, but when the holidays came, I don’t know what to do. And therefore do stuff, unhealthy and sometimes dangerous: walking the courtyards, find Abdul Baha firecrackers, well, at best, sit at home watching TV or the computer, watching stupid cartoons (like Batman) or playing the same game.
Uh, no! So it will not work! Dangerous and unintelligent the winter holidays are not for us. So let’s find something to take the child on vacation!
The time together!
In the cycle of everyday life You regret what little time possible to give to Your kids? You’re right – because children quickly grow, so let’s right now to communicate with them, to play, to spend time together! Winter break is the right time. When it’s cold or damp, and I want to sit at home in warmth and comfort – it’s so good the whole family to come up with an exciting experience. If you are busy Continue reading
In recent decades, psychologists have made a number of remarkable discoveries.
One of them is about the importance of communication style with the child to develop his or her personality.
Bad food poisons the body; improper communication is poisoning the child’s mind. The style of parental interaction involuntarily recorded (imprinted) in the child’s mind.
The parents of difficult children themselves suffered from conflicts with their own parents. Most parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood.
To change the style of communication with the child, the parent should:
1. Of course to adopt a child is to love him not for what he’s handsome, smart, calm and so on, and just like that, just for what he is! You must tell the child that he is dear to you. Four hours of communication per day is absolutely necessary for everyone to survive, and for good health at least eight (Virginia Satir)
2. Do not interfere in the case, which makes the child unless he asks for help. His laissez-faire you will tell him: “you all right, you’re going to fail.”
3. If a child is difficult, and he is ready to ask for your Continue reading