There are several relatively Autonomous psychological mechanisms through which parents influence their children. In the first place. the reinforcements. encouraging behavior that adults think is right ,and punishing the violation of established rules ,parents inculcate in the mind of the child a certain system of norms ,compliance with which gradually becomes for the child a habit and an internal need. Secondly. identification. the child imitates the parents ,guided by their example ,is trying to become like them. Thirdly ,understanding. knowing the inner world of the child and sensitively responding to its challenges ,parents thereby shape his consciousness and communicative quality.
Family socialization is not confined to direct “paired” to the interaction of the child with the parents. Thus, the effect of identification can be neutralized by a counter-role complementarity. for example, in a family where both parents can very well run a household, the child may not develop these abilities. as. although before his eyes a fine specimen. the family does not need the manifestation of these qualities; on the contrary. in the family. where the mother of echosystem, this role may take on the eldest daughter. No less important is the psychological mechanism of resistance. the young Continue reading
Any parent would want his kid could do everything, and better and earlier. I am no exception.
I decided to teach their children to swim.
not afraid of the water and feel confident in it – this is a very nice on vacation,
drowned and were able to help yourself and others in case of an emergency on the water.
When and how to teach a child to swim
When we had the eldest son, I decided to learn to swim from the first month (in the bathroom), once we heal umbilical wound.
There were no special children’s laps for swimming, but I remembered well from his childhood transmission “Health”, in which babies are taught to swim in a bathtub on the back in the cap, to which was fastened the foam on the ear level. The principle of teaching was as follows: the child is the toughest place – the head, if the head does not sink – the whole body of the child from birth is able to independently retain water. The main thing is to keep water from falling into your face (eyes, nose and mouth Continue reading
So, your parents have been together for 50 years. This is not just a round number, but a real holiday, which should be celebrated on a Grand scale, after all, go hand in hand for half a century is no easy task. Only love and sincere feelings is able to hold two people nearby. Best gift for a Golden wedding, the presence at the table children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren — and then your parents with confidence can tell that these 50 years have paid off.
The magnificent celebration of the Golden wedding anniversary due to the fact that half a century is a kind of border crossing through which you enter into a new phase of life, the beginning of the next half a century. Flowers, gifts, greetings — just like in wedding day, when your parents were as young as you are. On this day, all the attention should be drawn to the anniversaries, and the presence of children at the festival, one of the main conditions. According to tradition, on their Golden wedding it is customary to give the product of this precious metal.
Why wedding “Golden”?
Gold is a precious metal with such properties as ductility and durability. These properties are reflected in the 50-year anniversary. Malleability — the ability Continue reading