Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, — it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
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Bad habits are called harmful that harmful to our happiness and the happiness of our loved ones. So today the material on how to get rid of destructive addictions that prevent us from living happily.
Offer: three ways of liberation from any addiction, getting rid of any bad habits . These are three techniques that work effectively in their proper use.
Of course, everyone helps. If you’ve already tried a lot of ways to get rid of unwanted behavior, but they did not help, I’d be happy if you finally find «» method among my proposed here.
Applying these methods, you can break free from addiction to alcohol, Smoking, overeating, gambling. This may also include and dependence on social networks, the habit of nail biting.
And yet, this material will help to discuss these unpleasant qualities of character as irritability, anger — instantaneous, uncontrolled negative reaction to any stimulus.
How to get rid of bad habits?!
you need a good specialist and 10 minutes of time.
NLP — the trend in modern psychology and psychotherapy, which is based on modeling (copying) verbal and non-verbal behavior of people who have achieved success in any field.
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There are several relatively Autonomous psychological mechanisms through which parents influence their children. In the first place. the reinforcements. encouraging behavior that adults think is right ,and punishing the violation of established rules ,parents inculcate in the mind of the child a certain system of norms ,compliance with which gradually becomes for the child a habit and an internal need. Secondly. identification. the child imitates the parents ,guided by their example ,is trying to become like them. Thirdly ,understanding. knowing the inner world of the child and sensitively responding to its challenges ,parents thereby shape his consciousness and communicative quality.
Family socialization is not confined to direct “paired” to the interaction of the child with the parents. Thus, the effect of identification can be neutralized by a counter-role complementarity. for example, in a family where both parents can very well run a household, the child may not develop these abilities. as. although before his eyes a fine specimen. the family does not need the manifestation of these qualities; on the contrary. in the family. where the mother of echosystem, this role may take on the eldest daughter. No less important is the psychological mechanism of resistance. the young Continue reading