In recent decades, psychologists have made a number of remarkable discoveries.
One of them is about the importance of communication style with the child to develop his or her personality.
Bad food poisons the body; improper communication is poisoning the child’s mind. The style of parental interaction involuntarily recorded (imprinted) in the child’s mind.
The parents of difficult children themselves suffered from conflicts with their own parents. Most parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood.
To change the style of communication with the child, the parent should:
1. Of course to adopt a child is to love him not for what he’s handsome, smart, calm and so on, and just like that, just for what he is! You must tell the child that he is dear to you. Four hours of communication per day is absolutely necessary for everyone to survive, and for good health at least eight (Virginia Satir)
2. Do not interfere in the case, which makes the child unless he asks for help. His laissez-faire you will tell him: “you all right, you’re going to fail.”
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If you suddenly notice that your child is slowly drags money from home or have another toy or markers, you do not need to panic and think that he will be a thief for life.
Child stealing is a very common problem, although many parents are embarrassed to talk about it, considering the shameful family secret. Most of them do not know how to respond: not to swear, not to pretend that nothing happened, or blame themselves for the wrong upbringing of the child.
Causes of child stealing
The only correct reaction of parents to the child stealing does not exist, because every thief will have its own reason for such behaviour. Why do children steal? Choose common psychologists believe the following reasons.
· Uncontrollable desire to have a favorite thing . This can be a beautiful souvenir brought from abroad classmate or a toy, seen in the store. To steal himself desired object or to steal parents money to buy it – option can be any. But the point is that the desire to receive it so great that the child forgets about the moral side of things or not consciously thinking about what he’s doing is dishonest.
Quite often, the basis of this behavior is the difference in the material welfare of children . One child’s dad is a successful businessman gives Continue reading
Educational impact on the child, the young man has always been one of the key issues of psychological science. It is no exaggeration to say that the problem of training methodology exists by itself and upbringing. Knowledge (and efficient use) at least the basic methods of education is a necessary prerequisite for effective and purposeful influence on the younger generation.
Powerful social shifts of the late twentieth to early twenty-first century. greatly changed the perception of “normal”, that is socially acceptable and antisocial behavior of children and youth. In the struggle for influence on the personality of the child teachers have such a powerful “competitors” as a commercial cinema, youth entertainment magazines and television programs (often of dubious quality), video-and computer games. Mass culture and the closely related form of youth subculture often the best personal qualities that promote violence, promiscuous, alcohol abuse, use of narcotic substances. Countering the pernicious influence on the child, young person requires an outstanding teacher of tact, balance and again teaching skills: knowledge and skillful use of the methods of education in their logical conjunction and structural links with academic and employment of children and young people.
Getting Ukraine’s independence, Continue reading