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Harmful computer games for kids

 

The harm of computer games for the child. On this subject written many articles, with a warning about their negative impact on the child’s psyche. I want to break this tradition and to put the question in a slightly different perspective. So harmful computer games for children or not?

Children from the age of three, watching their parents spend hours sitting in front of the computer, and they begin to show interest in him. Parents, in turn, having read all sorts of negative articles, trying to delay the moment of meeting their children with the virtual world. But is it really that wise? Helpful or harmful computer games for children, especially younger age?

Actually, the computer that appeared in our life recently, has not yet managed to overcome in our minds some prejudice. Like everything new, it raises concerns. First phones, cars, cinema and other products of technological progress is also caused distrust people, but now it is difficult for us to imagine life without them. Not to be unfounded, let’s look at the computer children’s games in more detail.

The developers are working on the creation of educational games Continue reading

Approaches to psychotherapy

 

Know least about 450 types of psychotherapy. Unified systematization of such a wide and still growing list of almost unreal, and classification of types of psychotherapy varies considerably from author to author. But nevertheless most forms of psychotherapy can be correlated with major approaches. Consider the basic approaches in psychotherapy .

The psychodynamic approach.

Originates with the principles and techniques of psychoanalysis. coming from a dynamic understanding of psychic phenomena «… as a manifestation of the struggle of spiritual forces, as targeted expression of tendencies that operate in accordance with each other or against each other» (Z. Freud. 1915). The goal of psychotherapy — the understanding and resolution of inner emotional conflicts . arisen in the earliest relationships that determine the subjective value of subsequent experience and reproduced in later life.

The therapeutic relationship is used to identify, explain, and change these subjective values. Relationship «therapist-patient» considered as a reflection of ascending to the early experience of subjective values, emotional conflicts . During the therapeutic relationship, the patient unconsciously transfers to the therapist Continue reading

Computer games and children

 

A child who is guided from childhood in the computer feels more confident because he gets an access to the modern world.

Some computer games are the same classes as everyone knows that the child is much easier to attract to the game than having to add numbers or to learn the alphabet. When a child plays computer games, he enters a magical world that is so similar to a real one.

How not to get lost in the mirror world?

In computer games the most dangerous – this is the effect of the presence, when the baby begins to get acquainted with the computer. The smallest child understands that a cartoon is something that it is not directly related. He is an observer. Unlike cartoons computer games are constructed so that the player in what is happening feels like a party. Even an adult can be very difficult to return to the real world, what can we say about the kid that barely separates fantasy from reality. It is necessary to press the button, and fly with someone, fight with dragons or dancing at the ball.

The need to return to a world of fantasy, this is one of the first symptoms of psychological dependence, and sometimes even an adult is hard to get rid of it.

It’s really not as scary as it sometimes seems at first glance. Experience shows that in the first place to kibersvijeta tend those children in whom the computer is a lightning Continue reading

Positive parenting

 

Are You familiar with the condition where you want to yell at your child?

Or even to hit him?

Or are you confused and don’t know what to say to your child?

Or you think that you are too much from him?

And maybe sometimes you’re angry at yourself and you think that you are wrong to bring up?

because you have a lot of work and little time to engage the child

because you want every time as better, but it turns out, at least not in the way you want

because you, too, “so” raised

because it turns out that you don’t control the child, and the child – you

because sometimes you just don’t have the patience to do everything according to the rules written in books on education

And at the same time you really love

your son or daughter

and very want

the child grew up independent, strong, free, creative,

and most importantly happy and healthy

In our days the world is facing a crisis of education. In the past, the goal of education was to teach children obedience.

Positive parenting aims to raise the strong-willed child, but inclined to cooperate.

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Something to take the child on vacation: 5 ideas!

 

First semester (or second quarter) is finally over, the books resting on the shelf, and children… boring! They (and parents too) sooo waiting for this magical period when you can relax from school and damashek, but when the holidays came, I don’t know what to do. And therefore do stuff, unhealthy and sometimes dangerous: walking the courtyards, find Abdul Baha firecrackers, well, at best, sit at home watching TV or the computer, watching stupid cartoons (like Batman) or playing the same game.

Uh, no! So it will not work! Dangerous and unintelligent the winter holidays are not for us. So let’s find something to take the child on vacation!

The time together!

In the cycle of everyday life You regret what little time possible to give to Your kids? You’re right – because children quickly grow, so let’s right now to communicate with them, to play, to spend time together! Winter break is the right time. When it’s cold or damp, and I want to sit at home in warmth and comfort – it’s so good the whole family to come up with an exciting experience. If you are busy Continue reading