So, your parents have been together for 50 years. This is not just a round number, but a real holiday, which should be celebrated on a Grand scale, after all, go hand in hand for half a century is no easy task. Only love and sincere feelings is able to hold two people nearby. Best gift for a Golden wedding, the presence at the table children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren — and then your parents with confidence can tell that these 50 years have paid off.
The magnificent celebration of the Golden wedding anniversary due to the fact that half a century is a kind of border crossing through which you enter into a new phase of life, the beginning of the next half a century. Flowers, gifts, greetings — just like in wedding day, when your parents were as young as you are. On this day, all the attention should be drawn to the anniversaries, and the presence of children at the festival, one of the main conditions. According to tradition, on their Golden wedding it is customary to give the product of this precious metal.
Why wedding “Golden”?
Gold is a precious metal with such properties as ductility and durability. These properties are reflected in the 50-year anniversary. Malleability — the ability Continue reading
The harm of computer games for the child. On this subject written many articles, with a warning about their negative impact on the child’s psyche. I want to break this tradition and to put the question in a slightly different perspective. So harmful computer games for children or not?
Children from the age of three, watching their parents spend hours sitting in front of the computer, and they begin to show interest in him. Parents, in turn, having read all sorts of negative articles, trying to delay the moment of meeting their children with the virtual world. But is it really that wise? Helpful or harmful computer games for children, especially younger age?
Actually, the computer that appeared in our life recently, has not yet managed to overcome in our minds some prejudice. Like everything new, it raises concerns. First phones, cars, cinema and other products of technological progress is also caused distrust people, but now it is difficult for us to imagine life without them. Not to be unfounded, let’s look at the computer children’s games in more detail.
The developers are working on the creation of educational games Continue reading
In recent decades, psychologists have made a number of remarkable discoveries.
One of them is about the importance of communication style with the child to develop his or her personality.
Bad food poisons the body; improper communication is poisoning the child’s mind. The style of parental interaction involuntarily recorded (imprinted) in the child’s mind.
The parents of difficult children themselves suffered from conflicts with their own parents. Most parents raise their children the way they themselves were raised in childhood.
To change the style of communication with the child, the parent should:
1. Of course to adopt a child is to love him not for what he’s handsome, smart, calm and so on, and just like that, just for what he is! You must tell the child that he is dear to you. Four hours of communication per day is absolutely necessary for everyone to survive, and for good health at least eight (Virginia Satir)
2. Do not interfere in the case, which makes the child unless he asks for help. His laissez-faire you will tell him: “you all right, you’re going to fail.”
3. If a child is difficult, and he is ready to ask for your Continue reading