Child draws family: how to analyze a picture
  While he is drawing, don't get involved in the process, but follow the order of appearance of household on paper. When the picture is ready, ask the kid's name…

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Why do children steal? Tips to fathers
  If you suddenly notice that your child is slowly drags money from home or have another toy or markers, you do not need to panic and think that he…

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Why the child is crying?

 

Children – flowers of life, but when these little fidgets begin loudly to weep and wail for the whole house, is not watching and jokes. Most moms strongly frightened, panicky start looking for the cause of crying, but she is only one and is quite understandable.

Through this expression the kid simply communicates with adults and the world, because he is not yet able to speak, what can he do? Of course, feeding at least these signals, which, in his opinion, always accurately hit the target.

Unfortunately, there is no universal advice that would help to instantly recognize what is now the baby wants and how to behave properly in this situation.

However, the opinions that say that the baby in this way develops the lungs and builds character, erroneous. Indeed, in these cases also suggest that you do not pay attention or even to shout at him, saying, he will calm down.

Such education and behavior is absolutely wrong and incorrect, which may not only lead to the desired results, but also hurt the already delicate psyche of the child, because he will begin to form the opinion that the world is unsafe, unfriendly, and he’s out there all alone.

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The Child is afraid of injections – child psychology

 

Serezha is now a month and a half sick with bronchitis. We drank 2 weeks flemoksin, like was held. After 3 weeks, “residual cough” again turned into bronchitis. Moreover, quite serious. The doctor prescribed to drink again AB – cephalexin in suspension. We drunk 2 weeks, but the result is almost there. The child has a severe cough, he has sinusitis, tonsillitis, otitis media and bronchitis. Just attack. And yesterday to the doctor. and she said that stronger need for speaking something. And was discharged to prick the pricks – Cefazolin.

Yesterday we started. a mockery of the child and mother at the same time!

I know how to inject injections and Kohl’s okay. But! Serge SOOOOO afraid of injections. as soon as I start to prepare the shot, he stands up against the wall booty, still covering her hands and starts screaming desperately, sncal quiet, then louder, sobbing, “Mom, stop it! Not! Not!. ” he does not lie and does not become booty to me a companion. you have to hold it. But the force Continue reading

Approaches to psychotherapy

 

Know least about 450 types of psychotherapy. Unified systematization of such a wide and still growing list of almost unreal, and classification of types of psychotherapy varies considerably from author to author. But nevertheless most forms of psychotherapy can be correlated with major approaches. Consider the basic approaches in psychotherapy .

The psychodynamic approach.

Originates with the principles and techniques of psychoanalysis. coming from a dynamic understanding of psychic phenomena «… as a manifestation of the struggle of spiritual forces, as targeted expression of tendencies that operate in accordance with each other or against each other» (Z. Freud. 1915). The goal of psychotherapy — the understanding and resolution of inner emotional conflicts . arisen in the earliest relationships that determine the subjective value of subsequent experience and reproduced in later life.

The therapeutic relationship is used to identify, explain, and change these subjective values. Relationship «therapist-patient» considered as a reflection of ascending to the early experience of subjective values, emotional conflicts . During the therapeutic relationship, the patient unconsciously transfers to the therapist Continue reading