Children – flowers of life, but when these little fidgets begin loudly to weep and wail for the whole house, is not watching and jokes. Most moms strongly frightened, panicky start looking for the cause of crying, but she is only one and is quite understandable.
Through this expression the kid simply communicates with adults and the world, because he is not yet able to speak, what can he do? Of course, feeding at least these signals, which, in his opinion, always accurately hit the target.
Unfortunately, there is no universal advice that would help to instantly recognize what is now the baby wants and how to behave properly in this situation.
However, the opinions that say that the baby in this way develops the lungs and builds character, erroneous. Indeed, in these cases also suggest that you do not pay attention or even to shout at him, saying, he will calm down.
Such education and behavior is absolutely wrong and incorrect, which may not only lead to the desired results, but also hurt the already delicate psyche of the child, because he will begin to form the opinion that the world is unsafe, unfriendly, and he’s out there all alone.
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If you ask women, lying in the hospital, whom they want — a boy or a girl, most probably will answer: of course, my daughter! Son want to please her husband, but the dream of giving birth to my daughter. 20 years from now these same women often begin to complain that naughty daughter, did not meet their expectations don’t understand the loved one — your mom… And adult daughters, meanwhile dreaming of the birth of a child — of course, girls.
In fact, most women believe that the younger daughter will become a mainstay in my life, carer, close friend. What is the reason for this belief? The fact that women subconsciously equate his daughter with him. Often the mother is even difficult to understand where the boundary between her and her daughter. Usually it is quite natural, while the little girl knotted bows on silky curls and dress up in beautiful dresses like a doll (no wonder our grandmothers said, “the First child is the last doll”). At this age my daughter is in fact very close with his mother. The difficulties begin when the child is approaching school age. In addition to the daughter of his second, a woman tries in her upbringing to compensate for all the shortcomings of their life. Continue reading
Are You familiar with the condition where you want to yell at your child?
Or even to hit him?
Or are you confused and don’t know what to say to your child?
Or you think that you are too much from him?
And maybe sometimes you’re angry at yourself and you think that you are wrong to bring up?
because you have a lot of work and little time to engage the child
because you want every time as better, but it turns out, at least not in the way you want
because you, too, “so” raised
because it turns out that you don’t control the child, and the child – you
because sometimes you just don’t have the patience to do everything according to the rules written in books on education
And at the same time you really love
your son or daughter
and very want
the child grew up independent, strong, free, creative,
and most importantly happy and healthy
In our days the world is facing a crisis of education. In the past, the goal of education was to teach children obedience.
Positive parenting aims to raise the strong-willed child, but inclined to cooperate.
In order to raise healthy, able to cooperate Continue reading