Children – flowers of life, but when these little fidgets begin loudly to weep and wail for the whole house, is not watching and jokes. Most moms strongly frightened, panicky start looking for the cause of crying, but she is only one and is quite understandable.
Through this expression the kid simply communicates with adults and the world, because he is not yet able to speak, what can he do? Of course, feeding at least these signals, which, in his opinion, always accurately hit the target.
Unfortunately, there is no universal advice that would help to instantly recognize what is now the baby wants and how to behave properly in this situation.
However, the opinions that say that the baby in this way develops the lungs and builds character, erroneous. Indeed, in these cases also suggest that you do not pay attention or even to shout at him, saying, he will calm down.
Such education and behavior is absolutely wrong and incorrect, which may not only lead to the desired results, but also hurt the already delicate psyche of the child, because he will begin to form the opinion that the world is unsafe, unfriendly, and he’s out there all alone.
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Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, — it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
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Bad habits are called harmful that harmful to our happiness and the happiness of our loved ones. So today the material on how to get rid of destructive addictions that prevent us from living happily.
Offer: three ways of liberation from any addiction, getting rid of any bad habits . These are three techniques that work effectively in their proper use.
Of course, everyone helps. If you’ve already tried a lot of ways to get rid of unwanted behavior, but they did not help, I’d be happy if you finally find «» method among my proposed here.
Applying these methods, you can break free from addiction to alcohol, Smoking, overeating, gambling. This may also include and dependence on social networks, the habit of nail biting.
And yet, this material will help to discuss these unpleasant qualities of character as irritability, anger — instantaneous, uncontrolled negative reaction to any stimulus.
How to get rid of bad habits?!
you need a good specialist and 10 minutes of time.
NLP — the trend in modern psychology and psychotherapy, which is based on modeling (copying) verbal and non-verbal behavior of people who have achieved success in any field.
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