Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, — it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
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Bad habits are called harmful that harmful to our happiness and the happiness of our loved ones. So today the material on how to get rid of destructive addictions that prevent us from living happily.
Offer: three ways of liberation from any addiction, getting rid of any bad habits . These are three techniques that work effectively in their proper use.
Of course, everyone helps. If you’ve already tried a lot of ways to get rid of unwanted behavior, but they did not help, I’d be happy if you finally find «» method among my proposed here.
Applying these methods, you can break free from addiction to alcohol, Smoking, overeating, gambling. This may also include and dependence on social networks, the habit of nail biting.
And yet, this material will help to discuss these unpleasant qualities of character as irritability, anger — instantaneous, uncontrolled negative reaction to any stimulus.
How to get rid of bad habits?!
you need a good specialist and 10 minutes of time.
NLP — the trend in modern psychology and psychotherapy, which is based on modeling (copying) verbal and non-verbal behavior of people who have achieved success in any field.
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Are You familiar with the condition where you want to yell at your child?
Or even to hit him?
Or are you confused and don’t know what to say to your child?
Or you think that you are too much from him?
And maybe sometimes you’re angry at yourself and you think that you are wrong to bring up?
because you have a lot of work and little time to engage the child
because you want every time as better, but it turns out, at least not in the way you want
because you, too, “so” raised
because it turns out that you don’t control the child, and the child – you
because sometimes you just don’t have the patience to do everything according to the rules written in books on education
And at the same time you really love
your son or daughter
and very want
the child grew up independent, strong, free, creative,
and most importantly happy and healthy
In our days the world is facing a crisis of education. In the past, the goal of education was to teach children obedience.
Positive parenting aims to raise the strong-willed child, but inclined to cooperate.
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