Children – flowers of life, but when these little fidgets begin loudly to weep and wail for the whole house, is not watching and jokes. Most moms strongly frightened, panicky start looking for the cause of crying, but she is only one and is quite understandable.
Through this expression the kid simply communicates with adults and the world, because he is not yet able to speak, what can he do? Of course, feeding at least these signals, which, in his opinion, always accurately hit the target.
Unfortunately, there is no universal advice that would help to instantly recognize what is now the baby wants and how to behave properly in this situation.
However, the opinions that say that the baby in this way develops the lungs and builds character, erroneous. Indeed, in these cases also suggest that you do not pay attention or even to shout at him, saying, he will calm down.
Such education and behavior is absolutely wrong and incorrect, which may not only lead to the desired results, but also hurt the already delicate psyche of the child, because he will begin to form the opinion that the world is unsafe, unfriendly, and he’s out there all alone.
Besides a long Continue reading
If you ask women, lying in the hospital, whom they want — a boy or a girl, most probably will answer: of course, my daughter! Son want to please her husband, but the dream of giving birth to my daughter. 20 years from now these same women often begin to complain that naughty daughter, did not meet their expectations don’t understand the loved one — your mom… And adult daughters, meanwhile dreaming of the birth of a child — of course, girls.
In fact, most women believe that the younger daughter will become a mainstay in my life, carer, close friend. What is the reason for this belief? The fact that women subconsciously equate his daughter with him. Often the mother is even difficult to understand where the boundary between her and her daughter. Usually it is quite natural, while the little girl knotted bows on silky curls and dress up in beautiful dresses like a doll (no wonder our grandmothers said, “the First child is the last doll”). At this age my daughter is in fact very close with his mother. The difficulties begin when the child is approaching school age. In addition to the daughter of his second, a woman tries in her upbringing to compensate for all the shortcomings of their life. Continue reading
Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, — it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
Amazing result? Actually, the education of the individual in Japanese society is constructed so that this result is a natural Continue reading