Children – flowers of life, but when these little fidgets begin loudly to weep and wail for the whole house, is not watching and jokes. Most moms strongly frightened, panicky start looking for the cause of crying, but she is only one and is quite understandable.
Through this expression the kid simply communicates with adults and the world, because he is not yet able to speak, what can he do? Of course, feeding at least these signals, which, in his opinion, always accurately hit the target.
Unfortunately, there is no universal advice that would help to instantly recognize what is now the baby wants and how to behave properly in this situation.
However, the opinions that say that the baby in this way develops the lungs and builds character, erroneous. Indeed, in these cases also suggest that you do not pay attention or even to shout at him, saying, he will calm down.
Such education and behavior is absolutely wrong and incorrect, which may not only lead to the desired results, but also hurt the already delicate psyche of the child, because he will begin to form the opinion that the world is unsafe, unfriendly, and he’s out there all alone.
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Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, — it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
Amazing result? Actually, the education of the individual in Japanese society is constructed so that this result is a natural Continue reading
Are You familiar with the condition where you want to yell at your child?
Or even to hit him?
Or are you confused and don’t know what to say to your child?
Or you think that you are too much from him?
And maybe sometimes you’re angry at yourself and you think that you are wrong to bring up?
because you have a lot of work and little time to engage the child
because you want every time as better, but it turns out, at least not in the way you want
because you, too, “so” raised
because it turns out that you don’t control the child, and the child – you
because sometimes you just don’t have the patience to do everything according to the rules written in books on education
And at the same time you really love
your son or daughter
and very want
the child grew up independent, strong, free, creative,
and most importantly happy and healthy
In our days the world is facing a crisis of education. In the past, the goal of education was to teach children obedience.
Positive parenting aims to raise the strong-willed child, but inclined to cooperate.
In order to raise healthy, able to cooperate Continue reading